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Prostate play has always been a favorite topic among our customers — and for good reason. Not only can it deliver incredible pleasure, but regular stimulation may also support prostate health. (“Prostate milking” and prostate massage are two techniques often used with the goal of pleasure, health, or both.)

Even so, plenty of people have never explored their own prostate or a partner’s. If you’re one of them, consider this your introduction.

What Exactly Is the Prostate?

Often called the “male” G-spot — though it doesn’t need to be gendered, since people of all genders can have prostates — this gland is known for its role in producing deep, powerful orgasms. Interestingly, the prostata femina (commonly known as the G-spot in people assigned female at birth) develops from the same embryonic tissue as the prostate. Because of this shared origin, both spots tend to respond similarly to touch and stimulation.

Finding the Prostate

The prostate sits just below the bladder, wrapped around the...

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Masturbation is one of the most natural ways to connect with your own body and explore your desires. But when you add sex toys into the mix, you’re opening the door to a whole new level of pleasure and self-discovery. These tools aren't just for fun (although they definitely are that!)—they can enhance your overall sexual health and well-being in meaningful ways.

More Intense, More Targeted Stimulation

Sex toys are designed to provide a type of stimulation that's hard to achieve with hands alone. Whether it’s a vibrator that delivers deep, rhythmic pulses or a dildo that mimics penetration, these products can help you experience stronger, more satisfying orgasms. They also allow you to explore different sensations, helping you learn what kinds of touch, rhythm, and pressure you enjoy the most.

Support for Those Facing Challenges

For people with medical conditions, physical limitations, or who are taking medications that affect libido or sensitivity, reaching orgasm can be more difficult...

1. Educate Yourself
Learn the basics of anatomy — understand the clitoris, the perineum, and your partner's favorite spots. This knowledge will ensure a better experience. For a helpful reference, check out Em & Lo’s Sex: How To Do Everything.

2. Stick to What Works
There are moments when your partner hits the perfect rhythm, and instead of appreciating it, you might instinctively call out instructions that translate into faster or rougher actions. Resist that impulse. If you’re on the receiving end, just enjoy it and let your partner keep doing their thing without making them second-guess themselves.

3. Prioritize Cleanliness
Cleanliness should be a given. Wash your body and mouth thoroughly. Facial trimming helps prevent a rough sensation for your partner, while a clean pathway means more skin-to-skin contact. Some people also enjoy a bit of hair play, so communicate your preferences.

4. Give a Warning
Let your partner know before you finish. This not only builds anticipation but also...

We once encountered a woman who proudly declared, “I’ve always had dick, so I don’t need to masturbate.” We were stunned — our eyes widened, jaws dropped, and we were momentarily in disbelief. How could she make such a statement in the 21st century? Women should explore their own pleasure! We tried to explain that it’s not about obligation but about desire — taking control of your own sexual satisfaction and discovering what you enjoy without always depending on someone else. We pleaded with her to embrace this idea and even convinced her to consider buying a vibrator (see: 10 Toys Every Girl Should Have in Her Treasure Chest).

Why Some Women Don’t Masturbate

There are many reasons why some women still hold onto outdated beliefs about self-pleasure:

1. Early Negative Experiences:
   She may have been caught by her mother touching herself when she was young, who then discouraged it by saying, “Stop that right now!” This often led to masturbation being seen as something shameful, like stealing...

Many virgins, typically straight women, often ask us how long they can reasonably expect a partner to wait for sex, whether it’s realistic to hold out for the "right person," and if there are non-virgin, straight men willing to wait. For them, here are 10 thoughtful reflections on virginity to consider:

1. Faith-Based Decisions: If your virginity stems from religious beliefs, and you plan to wait until marriage because of divine expectations, focus on dating individuals within your faith who share these values. Make your stance clear early on to avoid heartbreak with someone whose beliefs don't align.

2. Sex as Something Sacred: Viewing sex as significant and meaningful can be commendable. Non-virgins could also benefit from placing more value on sex. Building emotional compatibility and discussing sexual health before engaging in intimacy can lead to healthier relationships.

3. Be Honest About Your Beliefs: There's no shame in being a virgin, so don’t feel the need to hide your values. Misleading...

Understanding sperm health is essential whether you're trying to conceive or simply curious. This guide explains how sperm are made, what influences their quality, and addresses common myths about male fertility.

How Sperm Are Made

Sperm production, or spermatogenesis, occurs in the testicles. It begins with spermatogonial stem cells, which divide and evolve through several stages under the influence of hormones like testosterone and FSH.

This process takes about 64 to 72 days, after which mature sperm move to the epididymis. There, they gain the ability to swim and prepare to fertilize an egg.

Why Sperm Health Matters

Healthy sperm are crucial for conception and may influence a child’s health. Quality sperm are active, well-formed, and abundant, increasing the chances of successful fertilization. For men, maintaining good reproductive health involves ensuring their testicles produce quality sperm and sufficient testosterone while avoiding factors that harm the reproductive system.

Factors...

Masturbation has been misrepresented and stigmatized for centuries with myths about physical and mental consequences, but today, it’s widely recognized as both normal and healthy. While the stigma is lessening, many men still lack information on why they masturbate or how to do it in a way that enhances pleasure and understanding of their bodies. Here’s an exploration of the motivations, benefits, and techniques behind male masturbation.

Why Do Men Masturbate?

Men often begin masturbating before fully understanding why, influenced by a societal portrayal of men as primarily driven by sexual urges. Masturbation is partly a response to a biological drive to reproduce, a need shared with other species. Many mammals, like bonobos, masturbate, sometimes for social reasons, and dogs exhibit similar behaviors purely for pleasure. Beyond biology, masturbation allows men to explore and enjoy sensual pleasure, which has its own immediate appeal and is completely valid.

Benefits of Male Masturbation...

The concept of sex doesn’t stop at “intercourse.” Terms like “going all the way” don’t apply here, as intercourse isn’t the ultimate goal or a finish line — it’s just one of many ways to enjoy sexual pleasure. Sometimes it’s on the menu, sometimes it’s not.

Mutually satisfying intercourse is about more than a checklist of moves; it’s about style, flow, grace, and equality. Sure, the technicalities of different positions are relatively straightforward, but adding that layer of connection and care sets us apart from our primal instincts. That doesn’t mean sex can’t be passionate and raw, but unlike in the wild, where it often lacks creativity, romance, and mutual pleasure, human sexuality has the power to be all of that and more.

While some people believe that great sex should come naturally, we think that the willingness to learn and try new things can take sex from good to great. Intercourse, in particular, could benefit from a fresh perspective. The “norms” we see in movies don’t always...